A little over a month ago, two men came onto the Colorado Mesa University Campus proclaiming a gospel of hate to the students. This stirred up quite a ruckus, but since then God has been using this situation for an opportunity for Christians to show the true Gospel: the love of Christ.
I remember distinctly what one of the men said to a woman who tried to approach them about what they were preaching. Immediately, he shunned her away telling her that she is not allowed to speak because she is a woman and has to be submissive. That’s a blow right to the heart of a woman..
The Google definition of submissive is Meekly obedient or passive. When I read my instincts tell me that means you are weak. In a society that says one of the most important things is being a “independent woman”, hearing Biblical teaching about a woman’s role almost turns women away immediately.
Here is a verse that sometimes is exercised beyond it’s meaning. “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” Ephesians 5:21-25
Often times the only verse women AND men take out of that verse is, wives submit yourselves to your own husbands…for he is the head of the wife.
Well I’d like to go into this a little bit and talk about what it means to be a woman of strength.
First of all, it is incorrect Biblical Theology to just take a scripture face value. If you have questions about this please refer to Michael Lawrence’s Biblical Theology book. It has transformed the way I read the Bible. When we take this scripture out of context we are missing the point and the authors original intent. Paul is not just commanding women to submit or telling the men to make sure their wives submit, he is giving a structure to which God calls us to live by out of love for Him. So many people miss the first part. “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” Synonyms of submit include, humble, obedient, and volunteer. It does not say slave. Submission is to volunteer to serve, and out of reverence (respect because of love, and relationship), we should feel compelled to do (action) things for Christ, and thus others. (Husbands, Wives, Children, etc.) In a selfish world, this is hard to do. We want someone to do it for us, then we’ll do it for them. There are stipulations that come with love a lot of the time now. I’ll admit , I’m not the best at it but when I constantly try to be the stronger vessel in my relationship with my husband, we constantly but heads. We always have to remember the Gospel we live by because it was modeled for us: love. God created man to lead. (leading is a whole other topic 🙂 I think it is so beautiful that God made man and women different. My husband Timmy is a wonderful complement to me. My weaknesses are his strengths, and some of my strengths help his weaknesses.
Ok if I keep going on husbands, I’m going to start ranting about mine 🙂 lets get to the point…
I am italian. I am strong willed, determined, and don’t you dare push my buttons or else 😉 Just kidding… but not really. It is hard for me sometimes to control my tongue and what I say. I get so selfish at times and I turn into a person that I wouldn’t want to be around. Being involved in ministry with the one you love is one of the best things I have ever done, but it is also stretches you. There are so many times that I just take over. Not always gently either… I can get impatient, because like I said, I am determined. I like to get things done right away. I like to have a game plan. Being involved in FCA is stretching me because I am forced to wait on God and to trust Him more than ever.
I have always prided myself on being a strong woman. Why? Well that’s what we see. Being a strong woman is a great thing, but I want to compare it instead, as a woman of strength.
This comparison is influenced by the Proverbs 31 Woman. Which are you?
I know after I read this, I felt a strong sense of conviction. But what exactly do we mean by the term conviction? Conviction means “the act or process of convincing,” “the state of being convinced,” or “a fixed or strong belief.” Thus, by biblical conviction we mean convictions or beliefs derived from and based on a commitment to Scripture, the Bible. As God’s Holy Word, it is the absolute index for the whole of our lives—faith and practice.
Going into the leadership role is another topic. I’ve realized I’d much rather be a woman of strength than a strong woman. Don’t you think it’d be different in our society if this were the example?
Which woman do you want to be?
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